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18 Reasons Living in Hawaii Isn’t Always Rainbows and Butterflies (Part 1 of 2)

So you visited Hawaii, fell in love with the island, and now you want to move here. I’ve heard this a time or two hundred before. You’ll have to join the other 2,000 people a week who encounter the same desire. Living in Hawaii is indeed a dream-come-true. It’s essentially a permanent vacation with the ability to live a lifestyle that you don’t need an escape from. It’s warm and sunny nearly all year long, no matter where you live on the island you’re always within a half-hour drive to the ocean, you can actually swim in said ocean all year long without a wet suit, and the word “Aloha” seems to be your new life motto. Sounds like a paradise, right? So why wouldn’t anybody want to live in Hawaii?

In this post (part 1 of 2), I’m going to dive into the cons of living in Hawaii, more specifically the downsides of living on Oahu, as that is where I live. Keep in mind that this biased article is going to be based on my upbringing and exposure to life outside of Hawaii and having experienced other places and lifestyles to compare to, so please take it with a grain of salt as I mean no offense with anything I write. I aim to provide a balanced and honest perspective of what it is really like to live in Hawaii as a resident. (Part 2 will be the pros of living in Hawaii!)

Throughout my life I have lived in California, Idaho and Seattle, as well as traveled abroad extensively through 13 countries, but I call Hawaii home, and I feel incredibly lucky and grateful to be able to do so. I have lived on Oahu for a cumulative total of 11 years, and grew up visiting this beautiful paradise all throughout my childhood. My Grandmother’s side of the family was born and raised in Haleiwa on the North Shore of Oahu, and my maternal side of the family lives here. My full-time profession is working in tourism as a concierge, so I am exposed to people from all over the world every day, who share their perspectives with me on visiting the island. This helps me to provide a well-rounded view of what it’s like to live in Hawaii.

Why Living in Hawaii Sucks

Well, it doesn’t. It’s awesome…most of the time. Sometimes it’s annoying and frustrating, just like living anywhere else in the world. In part 2 of this post I’ll detail the pros, but below I will share 18 downsides of living in Hawaii:

1) Extremely High Cost of Living
I lived on Oahu for nine years before moving to Seattle, where there is no state income tax and no grocery tax. After living in Seattle for nearly four years and moving back to the island, I was sticker shocked for a good two months upon my return. Everything is imported, so goods come with a higher price tag. My favorite indulgent drink is a Rebbl Maca Mocha. In Seattle, it costs $2.99. In Hawaii it costs $5.49. Get used to dishing out a few hundred more pennies here.

2) There Are No Seasons

Sea Cliffs, Molokai, Hawaii

The view of Kalaupapa on the friendly isle of Molokai, which is home to some of the tallest sea cliffs in the world

I am excluding the Big Island in this statement, which has something like 11 of Earth’s 13 different climate zones and even receives snow at the top of Mauna Kea!

This sentiment will be relative based on the reader. If you were born and raised on the East Coast of the United States shoveling snow and living in a winter jacket for the better part of the year, you may like that Hawaii has a uni-season. But I love fall colors and being able to go skiing in the mountains and see flowers bloom in spring (minus the hay fever). The fact that there are no seasons makes it difficult to remember where in the year we currently are. One time, my friend and I were driving to the North Shore and I asked her why there were Christmas lights everywhere. She looked at me quizzically and said, “Lisa, it’s December”. My brain did a double take before I muttered, “oh…. I thought it was July.” #Hawaiiproblems.

In places where seasons are present, it’s easier to live your life by the seasons. I.E. taking quiet time to not feel guilty about staying home in the winter to reflect or work on a project. Anywhere else in the U.S. (save Florida), in January you hunker down and gain weight because it’s too cold to do anything outside. In April you do spring cleaning. In July you go outside and play every day until dark. And in September you drink pumpkin spiced lattes and go out of your way to step on a crunchy-looking leaf. Every day is July in Hawaii, which means you have to be really structured and disciplined living in Hawaii, otherwise it’s hard to get anything done because people are outside playing all day, every day. Beach volleyball or doing laundry? Hmm…really tough decision there. This is most certainly a case of FOMO (fear of missing out). Here we dictate seasons by things like when mangoes are ripe, or when the waves are big on the North Shore. (See my post on Things to Do on Oahu’s North Shore from a Local’s Perspective here)

Waimea Bay Big Wave Surf

Big surf on the North Shore of Oahu at Waimea Bay in December

3) It’s 80 Degrees And Sunny All Year Long
Some of you are probably thinking “umm…doesn’t this belong in the ‘pros’ section? Break out the tiny violin, this girl is complaining about 80-degree weather.” I love the warmth, but I also enjoy variety, which, as we all know, is the proverbial spice of life. I actually get really excited when we have a thunderstorm or heavy winds, because it’s something different! I can actually put on a sweatshirt and maybe….maybe some pants. 80 degrees and sunny all year gets boring and old after a while. However, I’ve met countless people who disagree. They moved here from somewhere else, found their happy place, and will live and die here. To each their own.

4) Things Get Done On “Hawaiian Time”
You know that multi-billion-dollar project called “The Rail” that was meant to be done five years ago? Yep…still being completed….and several billion dollars over budget.

One time I was driving and saw a road sign that said, “Caution, men working ahead”…as I continued driving ahead, there were three construction workers taking a nap on the grass in the shade. Hey, everybody needs a break; construction is a labor-intensive job! I just found the sign and the actuality to be quite hilarious. Only in Hawaii would you find construction crew on their work break, napping outside under a coconut tree in the shade.

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5) Lack Of Recycling, Compost, and Overall A Terrible Waste Management System
Being a central hub for tourism, the islands go through waste – a LOT of it, especially plastic. And because we live on an island, we have to ship our trash out or burn it. There are virtually no recycling bins on the streets (only waste bins), nor in hotels or restaurants. The island doesn’t compost; they only have a green waste bin for plant matter, and they only recycle aluminum and plastics with a number 1 or 2 on the bottom. Because of lack of recycle bins, people default to throwing everything in the waste bin, thinking it’s out-of -sight-out-of-mind.

After living in Seattle for several years, I became spoilt with how progressive and green the state is. Seattle’s recycle and composting systems are top-notch, and they really care about their environmental footprint, stepping up as leaders in the industry. In Hawaii, not so much. Instead of seeing green roofs and gardens, you’ll see parking lots and dilapidated structures being unused and wasting precious space. Instead of compostable takeaway containers, you’ll see plastic and styrofoam (it’s a stab to my heart every time I see this.) You would think that an island would try to be more sustainable, but it doesn’t seem to be a top priority here.

6) Lack of (Non-Polynesian) Culture 
Hawaii is wonderfully rich in its own Polynesian culture, however, if you want to find a great local jazz bar or live indie music on any given night, you may as well book a flight to San Francisco or Seattle because you won’t find it here. It’s difficult to even find a good radio station that plays jazz, blues, symphonic music, or anything other than rap, pop or rasta music (a mixture of Jamaican and Hawaiian). (Thank goodness for Hawaii Public Radio). Occasionally the University of Hawaii at Manoa will host musical events, but they are few and far between. Also, because we’re an island, big theatre Broadway shows or well-known musicians rarely come our way. And when they do, shows sell out immediately.

7) Traffic
In a recent article published in February of 2018, Hawaii News Now reported that Honolulu ranked 19th for worst traffic in the nation. In 2012 it was ranked the #1 worst city in the nation for traffic (yes, even topping L.A. and Seattle). In 2013, it was the second worst, and in 2015 the 10th worst, so we’re improving, yay! (SOURCE: http://www.hawaiinewsnow.com/story/37441438/surprisingly-honolulu-isnt-one-of-the-worst-cities-in-the-nation-for-traffic). We have 1.4 million people on the island, and they drive everywhere. The city’s infrastructure was built as an afterthought. We are an island after all.

Honolulu traffic

Traffic has become terrible on the island of Oahu. (Image from Google)

8) Poor Public Transportation
Remember that rail system I spoke about earlier? Hawaii residents are still waiting on this completion, though I’m pretty sure people have stopped holding their breath by now. Besides our public city bus (called “TheBus”), which takes ten minutes to go one mile, there is no public transit system. In March of 2017, Biki, Hawaii’s first bike share system, was finally introduced; a baby step towards improvement. I get it, it’s not like we can easily chum up ocean water and build an underground system in Hawaii, but we could at least improve road conditions and add bike lanes to encourage bicycle commuting.

9) Hawaii is Not Bike-Friendly
I commuted to work 8 months out of the year when I lived in Seattle (the other 4 months were too rainy). With safe and protected trails like the Burke-Gilman Trail, biking in Seattle is not only friendly, it’s fun and popular! Here on Oahu, people don’t even know bike signals.

Example: I bike commute to work to Waikiki. I hand signaled to turn right by turning my elbow up at a 90-degree angle. I had the right of way, but a bus driver was making a left-hand turn. He saw my signal, smiled, waived at me, and proceeded to cut me off. He thought my right-hand turn signal was me waiving hello at him!!

Mountain Biking Kaena Point Oahu Hawaii

Biking Kaena Point on the West Side of Oahu

10) Hawaii is Behind the Times
Being an island, inevitably we’re behind on latest trends, especially technology-related. It took forever to finally get the credit card chip reader here. Meanwhile, other mainland states are racing ahead with contact-less systems. Whenever my guests try to pay for an activity at work, they hold their chip over the EMV system, and I laugh, saying, “you can hover your card over that reader all day, but that technology doesn’t exist here yet, we’re a bit archaic. Jurassic Park was filmed in Hawaii, after all.” 😉

Kualoa Ranch, Oahu Hawaii

Kualoa Ranch on Oahu, is the site location of multiple films including “50 First Dates”, “Jurassic Park”, “Mighty Joe Young” and the new series “Hawaii Five-0”

11) There is No Trader Joe’s, IKEA, and Few Consignment Stores
Okay, I know, this is a major first-world problem, but Trader Joe’s was where I bought all my cheese at a reasonable price! Thank goodness we have Costco, but when it comes to buying bulk items or furniture, we have very little in the way of a central place we can purchase used and/or refurnished furniture for cheap.

12) Lack of Farm-To-Table Eateries
Again, I’ve been terribly spoilt having lived in Seattle, one of the great foodie capitals of North America. I find Oahu’s foodie scene disappointing, as many restaurants cater to tourists and are overly priced, mediocre-tasting, and the ingredients are poorly sourced. Locals here love their spam, their sugary smoothies and their bento boxes and plate lunches; all of which come in plastic containers in a plastic bag. That being said, we are slowly starting to see the farm-to-table and local, organic sustainability movement catch on with the newer eateries that have opened up over the past year.

The local farm-to-table concept is far more adapted on neighbor islands, especially Kauai and Maui, and they’re starting to show up on the Big Island as well. You can read my Foodie Guide to Hilo, Hawaii here.

13) Tourism Is Rampant
This is a point of contention for me because the tourism industry is directly responsible for my livelihood. It pays my bills and I love having the opportunity to interact with people from all over the world every day. I love living in a place filled with multiple races and ethnicities because I believe diversity makes the world a far more interesting and dynamic place that we can all learn so much from.

However, because the island sees so many visitors each year, natural places and habitats such as Hanauma Bay on Oahu and Molokini Crater on Maui are becoming trampled and trashed. Reefs are being stepped on and erosion is occurring on many of the hikes. Whenever a place attracts a plethora of people, we also need to take precautions to mitigate destruction and overpopulation. I grew up snorkeling at Hanauma Bay, but unfortunately it has now turned into a massive tourist destination. This year Hawaii will attempt to pass a law that requires “reef safe sunscreen” to protect the dying reefs, but how will they ensure it is enforced?

Hanauma Bay Oahu, Hawaii

Many places such as Hanauma Bay and Diamond Head are becoming trampled with tourists, adding to the destruction of the natural ecosystems

14) We’re In The Middle Of Nowhere
Sometimes I look at where we’re located on a world map and when I see the tiny dot in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, my hands start to sweat. * Knock on wood *, but if any disaster or attack were to happen (and it has before…think Pearl Harbor), we would really be in trouble. Knowing that there’s only one way off of this tiny little land mass is a bit unsettling. Teleportation, anyone? Also, with the recent eruption of the volcano on the Big Island, people are freaking out about the safety on other islands. Oahu is 200 miles away from the Big Island, and even the Big Island itself is fine on the Kona side. Here’s my response to that:

Map of Oahu and Hawaiian Islands

Someone shared this photo on social media, and while funny, it’s a bit inaccurate. The lava destruction is occurring on the Eastern shore of the Big Island, and in this photo the volcano points to the Western Kona side, which is completely out of harm’s way.

15) Island Fever Is a Real Thing
Granted, I would take island fever over SADD (seasonal acute depression disorder) living in a cold, dark place any day. However, if you want to remain sane, you need to travel frequently. And in order to travel frequently, you need to have the money to do so, which leads me to my next point…

16) The Wages Don’t Match The Cost Of Living in Hawaii
Making a livable income in Hawaii is very difficult unless you’re in the right industry, or if you live in a box, on a boat, or with five other people and pay under $1,000 per month in rent. There are some jobs that pay quite well, especially in the tourism industry, but they can be difficult to come by. We call this problem the “paradise tax”.

17) Petty Theft Is Common
Though this is true most anywhere in the world, it is especially prevalent as a tourist target. Break-ins are one of the most common crimes on the islands, and they’re usually targeted at tourists who are all too trusting and leave valuables in their vehicles. Be cautious and don’t leave valuables in plain sight in your car or at the beach. This goes for locals, too.

 

18) Tourists Come First, Nature Comes Second
Do you remember the really popular Jack Johnson song that goes “they paved paradise to build up a parking lot…oooo bap bap bap..oooooo”? That’s pretty much how it works here. Especially on the ever-growing island of O’ahu, tourism reigns king, and laws and regulations are often overlooked simply because they know that the end result will equal…you guessed it…more tourism spending and revenue for the state.

I hope this post gives you a realistic perspective from a local resident about what it’s really like to live in Hawaii. If you are considering a move to Hawaii, or just love to come back time and time again to visit, I don’t blame you! I just ask that when you do visit or move here, to take care of the aina (land) with care and respect. <3

Part 2 to be continued in the next post for the pros of what it’s really like to live in Hawaii

Do you live in Hawaii or have you visited the islands? Would you add anything to this list that you feel are downsides to living in Hawaii?

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4 Comments

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    CareerBreakAdventures
    June 20, 2018 at 12:59 pm

    I love this list. I savor four distinct seasons as well and beach weather year round would not excite me. And no one likes red light cameras… 😊

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    What It's Really Like to Live in Hawaii - the Pros (Part 2 of 2) - Cultural Foodies
    June 22, 2018 at 2:42 am

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    Sean Smith
    June 27, 2018 at 5:50 am

    Unfortunately I have experienced #17 on day 2 of an 8 day stay. Backpack went AWOL from Waikiki, and it didn’t get blown away by the trade winds!
    This aside, can’t wait to get back one day.
    Cheers, Sean, Adelaide, Australia.

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      culturalfoodies
      June 27, 2018 at 7:19 pm

      Hi Sean! Nice to hear from you! I’m so sorry this happened to you, I was so disappointed when you told me this at the hotel. 🙁 I hope the rest of your stay was fabulous, despite the unlucky second-day occurrence! Did you ever get any of your things back?

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